Through these experiences, I realized that although there are numerous agencies, online forums, and social media groups offering advice, very few provide personalized, one-on-one support. Living in Japan can be stressful. Only tourists or newcomers may feel otherwise at first. But as the saying goes, "When you know, you know." Foreigners here need help alleviating stress so they can fully appreciate the wonderful opportunity of living in Japan. Japanese locals also need assistance adapting to the changing society.

We love Japan, which is why we came here. But let’s be honest: wherever people from different backgrounds live, things change. These people bring their own knowledge and experiences; the good and, unfortunately, the bad. Adaptation is a must, yes, but nobody can 100% abandon their true self overnight and completely blend into their new environment; unless they’re a psychopath, and that’s a bit dangerous, right? Hahaha. It requires time, patience, and adjustment from both sides. Both sides. We love Japan and don’t want it to change, but... what does not change does not evolve, and what does not evolve, perishes. My dream is to have a peaceful society to raise my children; a society where they will not be treated as less worthy just because... One of my close friends, Til, always says my life is like a novel. Trust me; you’re not alone. We’ve all been through a LOT. What’s important isn’t just going through the drama, but learning from it, improving yourself, and, most importantly, knowing how to navigate situations that are beyond your control. That’s why I created Oyemi: to assist and support both foreigners and Japanese locals who are interested in working together. Come as you are, and let’s work through it together.

By the way, Oyemi means it suits me in Yoruba, my mother tongue. Let’s make us suit each other with Oyemi!!!